Community
Community Guidelines
Short, visible, and actually enforced. Membership assumes you are choosing these on purpose.
Kindness first
Disagreement is welcome. Contempt, sarcasm at another member's expense, and pile-ons are not. Assume the most generous reading of what someone wrote at 3am.
Privacy is absolute
No screenshots, no forwarding, no quoting a member elsewhere — including to your partner, your group chat, or another platform. What is shared in The Circle stays in The Circle.
Zero judgment
Feeding, birth, sleep, schooling, faith, bodies, marriages, medication, money. Members share their own experience; nobody is here to be corrected.
Ask before advising
In 'I Just Need to Vent', advice is off unless it's requested. Witnessing someone is often the whole job.
No selling, no recruiting
The Circle is not a marketplace, a downline, or a lead list. Members are never contacted for business without invitation.
Care, not clinical advice
We bring in qualified professionals for professional questions. Community wisdom is not a diagnosis, and moderators will gently redirect urgent situations toward real support.
Moderation
Three moderators read the rooms daily. They will step in early, quietly, and without a public spectacle. Report anything that feels wrong — you'll never be asked to justify why it bothered you.